Tonight marks the start of my dad’s annual visit, arranged this time specifically to be there for my youngest son’s birthday (which is this weekend). Â Always a good time, never long enough, but frequently challenging what with the kids ongoing complicated schedule (and my own). Â In this case, we have basketball practice, basketball games, and of course Ben’s birthday party (bowling with friends this year). Â With work occupying so much of my time, and our preparations for the kitchen remodel next week, it will no doubt be a weekend of juggling.